my dad turned into a NEET who played MMOs and read weird pagan literature for a few years after my parents separated and he was forced out of work due to complications with diabetes and addisons. i really wasn't surprised
he also used to fetishize filipino girls hardcore. like he wouldn't shut up about their "traditional family values" and "hereditary work ethic" and whatnot. i'm pretty sure he was screwing an immigrant at one point too
he's out of that phase now thank god. he's a wonderful person outside of some of the gross s*** he did when he was single