Is there any way to easily raise self-esteem?
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Shing
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Type in your name at Urban dictionary um. Improve your appearance be like everyone else while having your own sense of originality. You have to fit in with the cool kids by wearing collar shirts. American Eagle Hollister and other s*** clothing brands. You have to talk like them walk like them be like them. Go to parties do drugs smoke weed then youll be one of the cool kids. Then you will be revered and will have higher self esteem.
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Tue Jun 07, 2011 7:38 pm |
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Kittenpuncher
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most people don't give a s*** if you smoke weed/drink well that might just be because vegas is filled with Mormons
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Tue Jun 07, 2011 7:41 pm |
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Kurodyne
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Alright, I think I have something that actually my mood sometimes.
Music: -Can be inspiring, such as 'Double Lariat' ('My friends were better at spinning than I was, but I pretended to give up and get better') -The videos have character designs that raise my idea amount, and I attempt to draw it from time to time, like 'Gray' by Len Kagamine -Give ideas for plot and stuff that I like to write when I'm bored (Fetishes, believe it or not, work for this too. I used my ideas of fetishes to write the lesbian story stuff)
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Tue Jun 07, 2011 7:57 pm |
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SS
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Oh wow, you're not a Mikufag. Congratulations.
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Thu Jun 09, 2011 2:40 am |
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CardCaptor Sakura
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I thought the term was a Vocafag or something Double Lariat is sung by Luka
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Thu Jun 09, 2011 3:25 am |
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Kurodyne
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It's still a nice song, though.
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Thu Jun 09, 2011 1:51 pm |
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Kurodyne
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Sorry for double post. Attempting to be more out-going has failed. I wore my Hatsune Miku bag that I got recently, and it got pink pen on it due to someone scribbling it on her face. Yeah, I hate school.
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 2:34 pm |
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Geno
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Why would you wear a gay Miku bag? You need to conform a bit to society, or you will be an outcast.
Look at what others are doing. Join in a bit, but toss in your own spices!
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 3:03 pm |
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Kiki
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Seriously. Imma have to take back the don't care what you wear thing since apparently you lack common fashion sense in the least. Post pictures of your wardrobe and we shall correct this. It'll be a What Not to Wear: Mcleod Version.
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 3:06 pm |
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Geno
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Exactly. And another thing, it's not the clothes you wear that make you outgoing. It's in the charm, and personality!
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 3:08 pm |
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Kurodyne
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I'll probably still use it anyway, it keeps me more organizzed by me putting my homework in there and all. 90% of the things that the most-liked people do are Call of Duty and football/other sports, but mostly football. I was thinking about signing up for baseball next year, so maybe that'll work.
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 6:03 pm |
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Geno
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So you make a topic asking for advice, and when you get the advice you deny it? Okay, cool.
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 6:09 pm |
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Kurodyne
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I'd rather be organized ATM, especially with all of the final exams and stuff coming.
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 7:40 pm |
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Kyzak
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Don't ask for advice if you're not going to use it, guy! Otherwise, you're just wasting our time, and that is not a very nice thing to do at all~
I'd like to make this perfectly clear: You're going to feel empty inside if you focus on conforming to the not-so-polite society of school norms, especially around your (our?) age. You should be trying to improve your outward image for you, not so everybody else will feign interest- if there's one thing I've learned about kids these days, it's that they can be about as shallow and absentminded as they appear. You're blessed with a different-not better or worse!-- head on your shoulders, and as it happens that means different mannerisms, too. Don't feel like you have to join their ranks to feel better about yourself- happiness is a choice, and all you've gotta do to make it is find contentment with who you are!
The other thing I'd like to address; results are never good when you bring pieces of a different culture into a far more volatile one. New things can make people afraid and often angry- your interests and how you express them is your choice, but you should expect people to act out against things they don't understand, especially those with short perspective (i.e this generation in general). There are compromises you can make without sacrificing your interests wholly; just don't make it blatantly obvious-from what you wear or talk about in public-- and you'll find yourself on much better footing. Don't feel like it's taboo, but it'll be better for everyone's sake if they're not ready to embrace it yet.
As Ramsey has been saying, a little bit of conformity -can- be a good thing; seeing things from another culture-or subculture, in this case--'s perspective can help build a lot of character, if you're putting it toward self-betterment rather than chasing after an image most accepted by your peers at large. Find some fashion or hobby that you genuinely like and pursue it; in the end, you're not feigning interest in something acceptable by everybody else.
Self-esteem is confidence in your own abilities, not other people's. Last I checked, we're all capable of changing our minds as we see fit! Have faith in yourself and what you can do- you'll start to feel a lot better. Promise!
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Tue Jun 14, 2011 7:49 pm |
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Kurodyne
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| | | | Kyzak!~ wrote: Don't ask for advice if you're not going to use it, guy! Otherwise, you're just wasting our time, and that is not a very nice thing to do at all~
I'd like to make this perfectly clear: You're going to feel empty inside if you focus on conforming to the not-so-polite society of school norms, especially around your (our?) age. You should be trying to improve your outward image for you, not so everybody else will feign interest- if there's one thing I've learned about kids these days, it's that they can be about as shallow and absentminded as they appear. You're blessed with a different-not better or worse!-- head on your shoulders, and as it happens that means different mannerisms, too. Don't feel like you have to join their ranks to feel better about yourself- happiness is a choice, and all you've gotta do to make it is find contentment with who you are!
The other thing I'd like to address; results are never good when you bring pieces of a different culture into a far more volatile one. New things can make people afraid and often angry- your interests and how you express them is your choice, but you should expect people to act out against things they don't understand, especially those with short perspective (i.e this generation in general). There are compromises you can make without sacrificing your interests wholly; just don't make it blatantly obvious-from what you wear or talk about in public-- and you'll find yourself on much better footing. Don't feel like it's taboo, but it'll be better for everyone's sake if they're not ready to embrace it yet.
As Ramsey has been saying, a little bit of conformity -can- be a good thing; seeing things from another culture-or subculture, in this case--'s perspective can help build a lot of character, if you're putting it toward self-betterment rather than chasing after an image most accepted by your peers at large. Find some fashion or hobby that you genuinely like and pursue it; in the end, you're not feigning interest in something acceptable by everybody else.
Self-esteem is confidence in your own abilities, not other people's. Last I checked, we're all capable of changing our minds as we see fit! Have faith in yourself and what you can do- you'll start to feel a lot better. Promise! | | | | |
Nyan, thanks. It is quite true though, this generation has such a short perspective. The overall main reason I still used my bag is because I don't have a good bookbag except for it, and my school is beginning to clean out their lockers. Seeing as I walk home, it would be quite difficult to hold a hell of a lot of binders and the such.
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Thu Jun 16, 2011 2:53 pm |
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