being married to a dude is also a thing that you do
and yes of course i realized that, good job using rhetoric to circumvent the point of what i said
and yes of course you would rather attribute it to "the people who don't think i should force people to like me are just dumb and close minded"
what a scientific journal says is still just an opinion apart from explicit statistics (such as numbers, meaning facts)
just as there is no actual evidence that you "become" gay, there is also no evidence that you are born gay
because we have yet to find a gene that makes you crave the c***...
a hormonal imbalance that you have from birth would also be traceable with genetics
from my personal experience with gay dudes it often comes from a pretty deep-seated inferiority complex
unfortunately people like to hide that sort of thing with a veil of excessive vanity/egotism/narcissism making them troublesome to deal with in terms of psychology
it often takes years, even a lifetime for them to figure it out
good luck finding a lib degree factory that will spend lifetimes trying to figure this out, considering the more time they spend on it the more likely the answer isn't what they want to hear
while i do believe it is possible to simply be born with the feelings of a gay person... i also think it is possible that someone will simply be born with the impulses to murder someone
i still support putting "born this way" serial killers in prison, because there are plenty of people who have an issue with the action of murdering people