I can connect online, yes.

My issue happens once I actually start playing. I can host apparently, and I can join games, but in the game itself, even if my local connection to my router is 4-5 bars, in game, I will lag REALLY badly at times, and other times, even have the game entirely freeze on me as the game starts.

If this is an issue with the flash player, I'd like help on figuring that out. I have the latest version and I use windows.

If it's an issue with my connection to your servers, I'd like help on how to fix any problems that might be on my end.

Thank you!

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